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MONDAY MORNING QUARTERBACK: REWRITING THE PLAYBOOK

We have all done it, replayed the meeting, the moment, the mistake.  That's what they call being a Monday morning quarterback.

But in life, we don't need more critics.  We need coaches, starting with ourselves.

Reflection Without Regret

Putting your mind on rewind isn't bad.  Staying stuck there is.  Don't use reflection to punish yourself.  Use it to prepare yourself.

Ask:
  • What did I learn about myself?
  • What will I do differently next time?
  • What went right that I may have missed?
Growth doesn't require a total rewrite, just a few intentional edits.

Rewriting the Playbook

Every misstep gives us insight.  Every setback builds strength.  Leaders don't wait for permission to adjust.  They learn, they adapt, and they move forward.

You don't need approval to try again.  You are the approval.

The Next Play

Courage isn't perfection.  It's showing up again after the loss: wiser, calmer, and still believing in yourself.

So, skip the self-critique (not just on Mondays).  Review the tape, take the lesson, and call your next play with confidence.

Real growth isn't about replaying the past; it's about writing a new future.

Courage To Be Thought:

You are not the mistake.  You are the adjustment.





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